It's just a game. Relax
Today a guy ask me to play doubles so i got on court and proceed to try to warm up. Another guy complained that they are playing a match 1 vs 2. I wouldn't mind it except he repeat two more times later as if I'm being a dick. But I just shrug because he prob didn't know I was asked to play doubles and they are the weird one for playing 1 vs 2 in a match.
Later on in a match with three japanese guys . One guy really hates to lose. When I missed a easy smash he starts talking smack in japanese with the other two guys. I told him to just have fun but he proceed to keep talking. I would have given more weight to his words if he is actually good at tennis but he used semiwestern grip for everything not to mention he missed so many smashes. Granted I was trying to find my serve so I lost a majority of my service games but silver lining I did found my serve toward the end. He is just such a dick that like I don't even feel like playing to win and the same prob for whoever his partner was prob plays to win to not get crap on and whoever my partner is play to have fun.
I chalk him up as an ignorant person who doesn't know any better yet talk smack about other people. I wonder if he ever seen himself play and think he plays good enough to be dick to people. He's prob going through something. For such a weak looking guy he sure likes to pick on people. Just really bizarre behavior. I will just stop partnering with him.