u/AdTraining1

I’m looking for advice on how not to get overwhelmed and how to stop procrastinating when I try to work on my goals. I’m in a long‑distance relationship with someone in Portugal, I’ve known her since middle school, and we’re trying to figure out how I can move there and go to college, but I only have a GED. I need to learn European Portuguese and find a program or course that would let me study there, but I have no idea where to start. Whenever I think about college, I spiral into all the “what ifs,” get overwhelmed, and feel terrified that I’m going to fail and it’s not going to work out.