Is this an okay goodbye letter, i never thought id have to send one

Hey *****, this might be the last time you receive a letter from me so I hope it's at least sorta good. I also hope you read it lol. I just want to say thank you, really. From the bottom if my heart thank you. There wasnt a single second I spent with you I felt was wasted. I still love you so much, and I never felt my love was wasted. I am still sad that you had to go, but if this truly better for you then I would have made this decision myself. You really are an amazing person, and you were an amazing girlfriend. I felt very and truly loved whenever you had the capacity for me. I understand your life is and has been hard. I understand you struggled with alot of things for a long time, and i understand youre tired. Im so very proud of you for getting through everything that you did. You did a really really good job, and im sure youll continue to do a really good job. You've done so much for yourself and youve changed alot, yet with all that change I never stopped loving and admiring you, and I never will. Im sorry youre not "better" mentally yet, but you have come a long way. Ive seen it. I helped where I could and I hope I helped at least a little. Im very sad to see you go, but i love you too much not to let you go. Remember what I said when we first met -

You are smart, and you are very capable.

You dont need anyone to measure your worth, or tell you your worth. You are smart, capable, pretty, outgoing and courageous all on your own. Im gonna do my best to move on, but ill I smile at the memories ive made with you. I hope you get better, and create the life youve dreamed for yourself. We were eachothers first everything, and im so happy I got to experience it with you. I wish it was different, but you were right, right now we would not have worked out. You typically were always right. Have fun in thailand, be smart with your decisions and live a full and happy life. Take care of yourself please, from the bottom of my heart please take care of yourself. Tell your mom and brothers thank you, and pet your dog for me when you get home.

Good luck, and have fun ****** if you ever need me, dont hesitate to call. Ill pick up.

Goodbye, and thank you so much for being you.

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u/AdamDestroy — 16 hours ago

Is this an okay goodbye letter, im unsure if im gonna send it at all

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Hey \*\*\*\*\*, this might be the last time you receive a letter from me so I hope it's at least sorta good. I also hope you read it lol. I just want to say thank you, really. From the bottom if my heart thank you. There wasnt a single second I spent with you I felt was wasted. I still love you so much, and I never felt my love was wasted. I am still sad that you had to go, but if this truly better for you then I would have made this decision myself. You really are an amazing person, and you were an amazing girlfriend. I felt very and truly loved whenever you had the capacity for me. I understand your life is and has been hard. I understand you struggled with alot of things for a long time, and i understand youre tired. Im so very proud of you for getting through everything that you did. You did a really really good job, and im sure youll continue to do a really good job. You've done so much for yourself and youve changed alot, yet with all that change I never stopped loving and admiring you, and I never will. Im sorry youre not "better" mentally yet, but you have come a long way. Ive seen it. I helped where I could and I hope I helped at least a little. Im very sad to see you go, but i love you too much not to let you go. Remember what I said when we first met -

You are smart, and you are very capable.

You dont need anyone to measure your worth, or tell you your worth. You are smart, capable, pretty, outgoing and courageous all on your own. Im gonna do my best to move on, but ill I smile at the memories ive made with you. I hope you get better, and create the life youve dreamed for yourself. We were eachothers first everything, and im so happy I got to experience it with you. I wish it was different, but you were right, right now we would not have worked out. You typically were always right. Have fun in thailand, be smart with your decisions and live a full and happy life. Take care of yourself please, from the bottom of my heart please take care of yourself. Tell your mom and brothers thank you, and pet your dog for me when you get home.

Good luck, and have fun \*\*\*\*\*\* if you ever need me, dont hesitate to call. Ill pick up.

Goodbye, and thank you so much for being you

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u/AdamDestroy — 16 hours ago

Is this an okay goodbye letter, I never thought id have to write one

Hey *****, this might be the last time you receive a letter from me so I hope it's at least sorta good. I also hope you read it lol. I just want to say thank you, really. From the bottom if my heart thank you. There wasnt a single second I spent with you I felt was wasted. I still love you so much, and I never felt my love was wasted. I am still sad that you had to go, but if this truly better for you then I would have made this decision myself. You really are an amazing person, and you were an amazing girlfriend. I felt very and truly loved whenever you had the capacity for me. I understand your life is and has been hard. I understand you struggled with alot of things for a long time, and i understand youre tired. Im so very proud of you for getting through everything that you did. You did a really really good job, and im sure youll continue to do a really good job. You've done so much for yourself and youve changed alot, yet with all that change I never stopped loving and admiring you, and I never will. Im sorry youre not "better" mentally yet, but you have come a long way. Ive seen it. I helped where I could and I hope I helped at least a little. Im very sad to see you go, but i love you too much not to let you go. Remember what I said when we first met -

You are smart, and you are very capable.

You dont need anyone to measure your worth, or tell you your worth. You are smart, capable, pretty, outgoing and courageous all on your own. Im gonna do my best to move on, but ill I smile at the memories ive made with you. I hope you get better, and create the life youve dreamed for yourself. We were eachothers first everything, and im so happy I got to experience it with you. I wish it was different, but you were right, right now we would not have worked out. You typically were always right. Have fun in thailand, be smart with your decisions and live a full and happy life. Take care of yourself please, from the bottom of my heart please take care of yourself. Tell your mom and brothers thank you, and pet your dog for me when you get home.

Good luck, and have fun ****** if you ever need me, dont hesitate to call. Ill pick up.

Goodbye, and thank you so much for being you.

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u/AdamDestroy — 17 hours ago

I want to tell her this, but what good will that do

I still love you, but im so angry at you. You lied and you said youd stay. You said youd stay the day you left me. AND you broke up with me over text. Im so angry, im trying to hard to be understanding but you left when I needed you. I genuinely dont actually know if im angry or just so disappointed you stopped choosing me. Its so unfathomable.I was the one that was always there I was the one who was always giving all I had all the time, why was that not enough why did you have to go and throw me away. I know why, im just so upset and I miss you so much. I did all I could for you and i know you still love me. I want nothing for you to be better and if this is what makes you better then its what should happen. I don't understand why you would think you had to change your behaviors to keep me, ive always loved you no mstter what. I dont understand, you have already changed alot since we first met, youre not the same woman and I still love you. Why did you have to go and give up. Why did I keep choosing you every day even when it was hard but you stopped. Why me, im so heartbroken.  i don't regret a single second we spent tg, and all the love I gave you is all yours to keep, and I know I deserve someone who will keep choosing me, i just really really really wish it was you. I still love you so much, and I love you to the point of letting go. I really really wish it was better. We did really good, and i just went to chicago and you were just gonna be home. I really really needed you. I want what's best for you but im so angry

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u/AdamDestroy — 1 day ago

You said there was no way for us to work

I can't believe you would say that. You broke my heart when I gave you all I had all the time. Why was it not enough? I'm so mad at you for leaving me, but I'm so happy you did it for yourself. If it's really better for you, then I'm glad it's happening. Still, we love each other so much. Why is that not enough for you?

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u/AdamDestroy — 1 day ago

I keep dreaming about her.

I miss her so much. It wasnt a mutual break but but we still love eachother and we needed to break up.

I keep dreaming about her and its killing me. Im being torn apart every day and I dont know how to let her go. I miss her so much

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u/AdamDestroy — 3 days ago

I don't know how to carry on

We still love eachother, my ex and I. She broke up with me for her own reasons, mainly mental issues, not growing into her own person, and that she's too reliant on me for security. She said I was a great bf and she was a great gf. I love her so much.

I respect her decision, and if it's really better for her then it's what I want as well. I am still so devastated, I miss her so much its like when i look at any nice beautiful thing a memory of her plays. Im so heartbroken and lost. She was my best friend and now my life is so silent, I keep breaking down every day idk if I can handle it.

I love her so much, ik she loves me still too, and ik its hard on her too. I cant handle these feelings

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u/AdamDestroy — 3 days ago

I miss her, not just as my gf but as my best friend

She broke up with me a few days ago because she needed to grow as a person, and she felt too dependent on me for security. She always said I was a good bf and we love each other very much.

I miss her so much, I miss talking to her, I miss showing her cool bugs and the cool things she likes in the games I'm playing. I miss her reaching out and telling me she loves me and complaining to me about her work. I feel so sick, I lost the love of my life and my best friend.

If this is what is best for her, then it's what should happen, but I miss my girl so much and idk how to move on.

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u/AdamDestroy — 6 days ago
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I miss her not just as my gf but as my best friend

She broke up with me a few days ago because she needed to grow as a person, and she felt too dependent on me for security. She always said I was a good bf and we love each other very much.

I miss her so much, I miss talking to her, I miss showing her cool bugs and the cool things she likes in the games I'm playing. I miss her reaching out and telling me she loves me and complaining to me about her work. I feel so sick, I lost the love of my life and my best friend.

If this is what is best for her, then it's what should happen, but I miss my girl so much and idk how to move on.

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u/AdamDestroy — 6 days ago

I feel so lost

I was broken up with a few days ago, because she needed time alone and to grow as her own person; she feels that she was too reliant on me for security. Mental health struggles and anxiety had her walk away. She always told me how much she loved me and how good a boyfriend I was, and I helped her through everything she told me. I love and respect her, and as much as I hate it, if this is better for her, then I want nothing else. It was so sudden, and I'm so hurt that she could drop me like this. I feel like a terrible person for not helping her more or being so angry that she dropped me. I don't know what to do with myself rn. I've always been very secure in myself and my future, but I can't imagine loving or being with someone else besides her. Again, if this is better for her, then it's what should happen, but I am so angry and so sad all the time. I've been crying for days and using all my willpower not to message her.

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u/AdamDestroy — 7 days ago