Husband Doesn't Want to Go on Vacation- Am I Being Unreasonable?
So my husband and I have a 4 year old and a 7 month old. I would like to go on a vacation next year in the summer and he is extremely adamant that we can't go on a trip until the youngest can walk/ won't need to be carried.
He says that it's too much work and he won't relax so there is no value in it. (Even though I feel like I do almost all the prepping and he helps with the muscle.)
I'm inheriting a substantial amount in December from an aunt who passed so the finances aren't the issue. He wants to invest the money.
I don't want to wait until my late 30s to go on a trip! We went on a trip without my first born and I had terrible anxiety that something bad would happen so I can't go without kids.
I said I'm totally open to destinations and he just shut it down. He says he knows himself and he knows he won't have a good time.
We are both teachers and have the summer off so ideally July would be a good time.
If anyone has any good recommendations for a relaxing/easy trip with young kids I'd love to hear it.
Any other suggestions to navigate this situation?
EDIT UPDATE: I used a lot of your great advice and had another conversation about it- he did say he is a bit overwhelmed and just TIRED this last month, but will reconsider it closer to the date. (He originally just said no, finite no)
I agreed to not bring it up again.
Hopefully, I can use your suggestions for our trip!