How do I accept, and stop obsessing, over a relationship that no longer exists? Myself and a family member, they want nothing else to do with me. It’s hard accepting someone dislikes me that much, and can’t let me into their life, after we have had a good relationship.
I placed my daughter for adoption, when I was 19. Fast forward to when she was 7, she started a relationship with me, and my family. Her parents were supportive of this relationship, as well. After a fallout, early teenage years, we reconnected 2 years ago. Had a really nice connection, even gifted her a car, to help make her life easier. six months after we gifted her the car, she ghosted me all together. would not reply to my messages, phone calls, texts. she will be 21 this year, and just recently had a baby. This is my full blood grandchild, she still wants nothing to do with me. My question is, how do I get past this, and move on? It eats me alive, and I do not know how to gain a better perspective moving forward. Thanks!