u/Deep_Tie_2923

I’m currently running and working in a business that takes up so much of my time. I’m really missing some intimacy and just having someone to do a fun thing with every once in a while. I don’t necessarily want a casual fling but a consistent friend with benefits. Is this a terrible idea or how do I go about looking for this? Maybe not even possible? I don’t have time to be texting every day or to invest as much time as is needed for a truly committed relationship. Are there decent men who are ok with being friends first and then slowly moving to the benefits part?