I do have her number but I would prefer to tell her in person. I fear that over text is the only option. is there any advice for this? (if it matters I am 14m and she is 14f)
I have noticed something about the kids in my school. what I have noticed is that the more christian someone is, the more of an asshole they are. this may be a coincidence but I had a friend who was christian but was very low key about it. now all of sudden, next year, he was going to school with Jesus shirts and gold cross necklaces and shit like that. that was when he started to become insensitive and saying ablest and ignorant shit about autism. (I am autistic and get bullied about it on a daily basis so I am very sensitive to that) I eventually did lash out at him (blinded by anger) and got in trouble for it but I couldn't help but notice the correlation of being way more outwardly christian and him being more of an asshole.
This is one specific example but I see it too in the larger scale.
All my friends believe in scientific discovery and logic in general and the are very nice people. there is also a group of people that, if any of them follow a religion, nobody knows about it. these people are also very nice and I know most of them as at least acquaintances. there are some groups where I have a few friends and, while they are not as nice, I notice that more of them are outwardly christian. still not the worst people though.then there is a bigger group of mainly Christians who are not nice to me, even when I am nice to them. then there is the full-on, $500 Jesus necklaces, quoting the bible group. and while smaller, are absolute assholes. they are the most ignorant, homophobic, racist and just plain stupid people I have ever met. they repeatedly harass me and my friends without any aggravation, they cause chaos, the physically harass me, it is absolute hell being around any of the people in this group.
Does anyone else notice this?
I was thinking of a scenario, lets say that a christian scientist found undeniable evidence that god is not real. this puts them into an odd scenario, would they say that the evidence is wrong and leave science all together or, leave their religion, the thing that they base all of their decisions on since birth? sticking with christianity is more likely, meaning that the hypothetical scientist would deny the proven evidence because of his faith. am i missing anything?