u/Defonotajj

Okay so, I’m a stone cold virgin and im petrified of sex. Hence where my asexuality started. Im not too high on the ace spectrum like sex doesn’t necessarily interest me, nor does it ever come across my mind as a possibility to want to have. Ive been groped and sexually assaulted but not like “🍇” as per se. After that I just couldn’t do anything. I’ve tried like masturbation but even then it’s painful to insert anything so I stopped as a whole. I use tampons but I can only use the ultra thin ones. Even then I struggle like crazy without it being painful. Please help me I’m so unsure if somethings wrong with me and I don’t know how to fix it. All of my friends and their partners are sexually active and I feel so behind. I’m so unsure what to do. Please help me any advise is appreciated.

Ok so I’m 16F. All of my friends are sexually active and I feel so left behind. I’m a stone cold virgin. And I’m petrified of sex. I can’t stand being touched sexually or even making out after I was groped by my cousin. I tried to get back into it, tried masturbating. But I can’t even get two fingers. Like one I can, but two is EXTREMELY painful. I’m unsure if this is normal, or if I’m just overthinking or if I’m just not normal. Please help me.

Okay so, im only 16. I’m a stone cold virgin and im petrified of sex. Hence where my asexuality started. Im not too high on the ace spectrum like sex doesn’t necessarily interest me, nor does it ever come across my mind as a possibility to want to have. Ive been groped and sexually assaulted but not like “🍇” as per se. After that I just couldn’t do anything. I’ve tried like masturbation but even then it’s painful to insert anything so I stopped as a whole. I use tampons but I can only use the ultra thin ones. Even then I struggle like crazy without it being painful. Please help me I’m so unsure if somethings wrong with me and I don’t know how to fix it.