I’m in a 6 month long healthy relationship with my girlfriend but I’m not sure why sometimes I feel like she might leave me on day
I Izzy[M26] have been with my gf Anna [F27] for 6 months. We’ve been together since January 1st of 2026 and are still going strong and healthy as we approach the summer of this year. Mind you, she’s my longest relationship out of any other girl I’ve been with.
Majority of my relationships in the past wouldn’t even last a year or anywhere past 5 months to be exact so I know there’s something special about Anna. She accepts me for who I am so far and I accept her for who she is. We always remind each other how much we love each other and even on bad terms we don’t go to bed being angry at each other. We also tell each other that whatever disagreement we have, it can never be greater than the love we have for each other and we talk it out and squash it completely. I get suprised at times because I’m use to women calling it quits after we have disagreements or if I’m just not meeting their standards in a way, instead of effort, they would rather let me go and then I’m single again. Not with Anna, though. She’s the best girlfriend I ever had so far and I really don’t want to mess anything up between us. Sometimes when we argue, I be thinking that she’s keeping things noted so one day she can build up a Rico case on all our arguments and just leave. Sometimes I feel that maybe she might get bored of me being a good guy to her and just wanna leave. Sometimes I feel like she may just be settling for me but have guys who are better looking than me and would wanna leave me at some point. I have all these thoughts in my head at times yet no specific proof of her doing the unthinkable. I think I’m just paranoid at this point and just need some help or maybe even therapy.
My overall point: I’m in a healthy relationship. I’m not that use to it do to abandonment issues from previous relationships and I don’t wanna sabotage this one with my overthinking. I just wanna know is it normal to feel suspicious of being in a healthy relationship even though nothings wrong?? What do yall think??
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