AIO for being suspicious of my girlfriend’s location shutting off
Little bit of context. Me and my girlfriend have been together for years. There have been a few instances in the past where she lied/cheated/was messaging other people but we moved on
Yesterday she went to an event with people from her past. It was in a different city hours away. She had planned to go for a few hours. I had something I was doing so that’s fine.
I didn’t hear from her from around 5:30-9:30. Okay, whatever. She said she got drunk and was passed out at a friend’s that I know. That’s fine, no issues. I told her to feel better and I’ll just see her tomorrow. Then later that night, around midnight, I go to text her and notice her location is off. I have no clue how long it’s been off. So I text, I call, and I message the friend.
The last time her location was showing something suspicious (that she was at an apartment) she claimed it was wrong and she was elsewhere. This was proven not true.
So back to now. For the record, I didn’t accuse her. I was just asking where she was and to turn it back on.
My girlfriend and her friend are pissed I don’t trust her and that “I’m tracking her”. I barely use the location thing ever. She’s also mad I bring up the past when explaining my feelings over situations like this. I just bring them up as a reference point on why I feel the way I do.
I do believe she may have just been asleep at her friend’s and it bugged out, but am I wrong or overreacting for being suspicious?
Just a quick list of why it felt weird to me
- We were supposed to see each other last night
- I didn’t hear from her for hours
- She was drunk and plans changed since she needed to sober up (which is fine)
- I didn’t hear from her for more hours (also fine if she’s sleeping)
- I notice her location is off at around midnight
- Her friend told me she was with her all day. My girlfriend said she was alone for part of it. Then her friend said “oh I was at karaoke around 9”
- Now she’s flipping it on me for not trusting her and bringing up the past.
Am I overreacting here? And is it not okay to bring something up when it’s directly relevant to the situation at hand? Thanks.