
Any Asian girly here?
Any Viet girl in this group? I made this bánh tráng trộn for movie snack but it ended up being my dinner. It’s cut up rice paper with lemon juice, sugar, crispy onion, lemongrass oil, shrimp salt and coriander leaves

Any Viet girl in this group? I made this bánh tráng trộn for movie snack but it ended up being my dinner. It’s cut up rice paper with lemon juice, sugar, crispy onion, lemongrass oil, shrimp salt and coriander leaves
I’m unfortunately here but from good deeds. My dad has been battling cancer the past 20years and I financial depleted myself to help him out. I made good money and invested it carefully, but any extra cash or savings went to my dad’s treatment. My mom resent me for helping him but that’s a story for another day. I pushed myself to the edge and honestly I think I need to stop. He has inheritance from his dad that he would not touch to help me out from this mud but honestly I think I might have dug my own grave. I was generous with him when I could but my business got hit so bad during the Iran war and my dad wouldn’t touch his inheritance to help me out. Lesson learned, I guess financial crisis isn’t as urgent as life or death. I have spent the last 10years of my adulthood doing anything to make his life better because it’s heart breaking seeing him going in and out of death during chemo. But I guess he’s so used to our relationship being one sided he doesn’t see my struggles as something he has to act on.