26F 6 weeks PP caught 27M husband online cheating for 3rd time
Looking for advice
My husband and i became pregnant after maybe 6 months of knowing each other. After this we got married , i caught him he was messaging his ex and flirting with women on IG and snap. This was before my first baby was born like 6/8 months pregnant. We were young at this time 21/22. After my baby was born during the pandemic about 5 weeks in i caught him flirting again. This is what i believe to be the last time and i did see a real change, he removed women from online and made sure to rebuild the trust. We've been through soo much in the oast 6 years. I can not imagine my life without him, im not dependent on him financially but i think i am emotionally. I live away from my family and have no one i can really go to in the city where i am.
Today i found 3 separate messages on snapchat 2 flirty ones calling some girls i dont know sexy and hot and that they look good in promiscuous clothing. The other he send a messaging saying so sorry you're going through this to a long post of a girl venting about something i didnt really read about. My heart absolutely dropped.
Is this grounds for divorce? My baby is not even 2 months old. Hes been home with us for this entire time , he goes bavk to work in 2 weeks. We've been through so much in 6 years. Even the birth of my 2nd baby , she was born in the car , i went to the er on day 2 and 3 pp for anxiety attacks and because i had prolapse he literally saw my uterus fall out my v***.
I just can't believe this is happening. I thought we were so happy caring for our new baby. I did notice some attempts of intimacy recently where i pused him away and made it clear im not ready.
Hes a great dad and has been nice taking care of me and being home.
should i go away from summer with my parents and my babies? do i file for divorce? i haven't reachout out for any support from anyone.
I am very confused. Please help