How much balance is good and how much is 50/50?
dear girlies,
(disclaimer I live in the Netherlands, so some things are different here)
I have a question. i recently entered a relationship with a great guy.
He does so much for me (always picks me up - even outright said hed never let me take public transport - we live 30 min by car apart; came on a whim to fix my bike; took days off from work to help with my school stuff, actually put in his best efforts despite sitting at a sewing machine for the first time; makes sure to always call and text etc; has been very attentive and the list goes on and on and on)
However I was rewatching a bit of our Mother Shera Seven and was wondering if Im dooming a good thing. I am always a bit confused how much me doing things for him is fair and supportive of the relationship and how much would put me in a pickme position again that Im not going back to period. How do you distinguish?