u/Due-Acanthaceae4074

This is the bare minimum of human decency in a rejection. And it's so rare it actually pulled my friend out of a hole!

This is the bare minimum of human decency in a rejection. And it's so rare it actually pulled my friend out of a hole!

My friend has been job hunting for 8 months. Rent, pressure from his parents, no security, the whole grind. But he keeps learning and building skills after every rejection because he has to. but let's be honest about what the process actually does to people. The cold one-line "no.", the copy-pasted "we've decided to move forward with other candidates.", and the favorite of every company that thinks your time is worthless: getting ghosted for weeks after they made you do multiple rounds.

That's the standard now. Companies will happily take hours of your unpaid time, your take-home assignments and your hope. And then can't be bothered to type two sentences. They've decided that basic acknowledgment is a cost they don't need to pay, because what are you going to do about it?

That is not all.This is the part that's actually bleak, by the way: my friend got the rejection in the screenshot, and it lifted him up. Yes..A rejection.! The reason it stood out and the reason it meant something is that someone spent five minutes treating him like a person instead of a ticket to close. They named what he was good at. And they were clear the "no" wasn't about his ability.

Think about how broken the system is when that's the thing that restores someone's faith. This isn't a feel-good story about a nice company. It's evidence of how low the floor has dropped. That the bare minimum of decency now reads as extraordinary!. Every company could do this. It costs nothing. They just don't, because they've calculated that your dignity isn't worth the keystrokes.

The bar is on the floor. This email just reached down and picked it up. That shouldn't be remarkable. The fact that it is tells you everything.

u/Due-Acanthaceae4074 — 10 hours ago