I broke up because he forgot to say Bye(20F)
I was in a long distance relationship kinda thing with this guy for like 6 months. We used to talk every day for like 2-3 hrs. At first he used to take his time out as much as he could.
But the thing I disliked Abt him that he used to give me timing like he'll come online at 5pm and he would show up at 10 pm. I used to look like a clown 🤡 waiting for him, it happened multiple times, So I asked him to not give me timings.
Another thing was that when we were on call,he would sometimes cut the call abruptly but I understood that maybe someone was calling him, or something urgent had come up use but he would go hours without calling me back or messaging "Bye,I got some work, I'll call you later"
These things happened multiple times and we used to fight mainly because of this. Mind you we are in long distance and the only communication we had was online.
But whenever I used to talk to him Abt it he used to just said to be more understanding Abt his routine.
Ik it might sound very trivial things but it matterd to me and I can't even explain this thing properly. I gave him soo many chances,I even forgave him when he forgot my birthday(I was heartbroken)I told him that I don't like this at all I was not forcing him to call me everyday I was just asking him after he cut the call suddenly please message me afterwards that he's busy because I don't use insta at all I uses it only to talk to him.
And when I used to be busy he would taunt me "ohh guess you are so busy🙄"
And the audacity of this man after we broke up and called me he did the exact same thing. I feel like I am begging for his attention.
AITAH for breaking up? Please don't be a creep, not looking forward to date anyone🙏🏼