u/Due-Law-4520

AITA for refusing to break up with my boyfriend?

This year, I (14F) met Mike (16M). Initially, he made me feel watched and I was uncomfortable so I let him know. He said he was sorry and that he just wanted to know me better because he thought I was very nice and he liked me. I decided to give him a chance and I found out that he was really kind, funny, intelligent and basically, he was just my type, so when he asked me "Do you want to be my girlfriend?" I said "Yes".

We've been dating about two months ago and he introduce me to his family so I decided to do the same. I took him to my house, introduced him to my parents and my siblings Sam (15M) and Lisa (13F). He quickly got along with my parents and Lisa, but he wouldn't speak to Sam. I thought that was weird, but I didn't ask him anything about that.

After he left, Sam said to me that we needed to talk. It happens to be that last year he told me and Lisa that there was a guy in school who watched him a lot and even brought him candy. Basically he was feeling harassed. It was only after he put his hand on his shoulder that he said he would talk to the principal, so he stopped doing that stuff, and that guy was Mike. He said he wasn't comfortable with the idea of his sister being close to the person who he considered his stalker.

I said to him that I was sorry, but I'm happy with my relationship because Mike has been a great boyfriend who has treated me well and I didn't need his approval to be in a relationship. He said I was being selfish and putting a guy who I just met over my own brother.

Now, it's been two days after that and he hasn't spoken to me.

What do you think?

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u/Due-Law-4520 — 9 days ago