u/Due-Pomelo-6649

More specifically south Dublin and a female therapist thank you

I’m a 24(f) and when I’m in a relationship i literally give them my all like I have no sense of self anything they want me to do I do . I struggle with setting boundaries as I have a fear they will leave . Even tho most of the time they are obsessed with me at the start then they start to pull away but they will be like ur literally perfect everything I want in a girl blah blah . They pull away then when it ends they want to come back ?

The last relationship which was my 2nd relationship this was only a few months but i ended because it was way to much push and pull. But it’s hurting me sm I feel like im not going to find someone who just genuinely cares for me the same way I do for them . Does anyone else get like this and what advice would you give ?