u/DummyAnonymous

It's an arranged marriage which happened 1.5 months back. We are 27 and 25.

There was some adjustment for us to live together which is natural. We had built a connection during courtship. And even post marriage we've been going gently.

We talk and go out and have date nights.

Things seem good, except she isn't interested in having sex. I've tried to initiate but she shuts me down. She tells me not now or something like that.

I've tried asking if something is wrong or she has something to tell me. But she doesn't talk about sex and will change the topic.

I really like our bond and connection but a marriage is not a friendship only. It's a sexual relationship.

I'm confused about how to manage this situation.