Wherever we go women are giving all their attention to my husband?
My husband is one of the most successful and respected judges in our region. But he is always too busy for us. In the little free time he has he usually swims, jogs or walks his 19 years old dog alone. They have a special bond. In our community once a year it's organised an event for children. Fun activities, awareness for parents. I begged him to make time and join us. We have 4 kids and 2 of them are young: 3 years old son and 7 years old daughter. And he wants one more but no way... I am 41 and he is 44.
He got there late but at least he joined us and we had fun. He played with our children and I sat on his lap so we were having a great time also as a couple. Our teenage kids came too. 17 years old son and 15 years old daughter.
The whole neighborhood and community was there and many young people. One of our neighbors, 18 years old asked my husband if he wants to ride with her. They had horses there. He politely refused but later while she was on the horse they did talk and she straightened her arms in his direction asking him to help her get off the horse. He put his hands on her in a normal way... but immediately removed them and asked the guy responsible for horses to help her.
Some of these grls are high school colleagues of our son and they were all around my husband for the whole event. Asking him questions about the legal system and stuff I am sure they couldn't care less about. One of them put her hands on his shoulders as for a massage. Other Brought him drinks he didn't ask for, food. It's something that happens often. He rarely joins the neighborhood barbecues but if he does, he is the superstar of it. I don't think he seeks it but looks like he enjoys the attention. They flirt with him openly but he doesn't flirt back. For example this one that invited him for a ride unbuttoned her shirt before she approached him. I don't know if right before but before he arrived her shirt was buttoned up to the neck.
Our son feels self conscious because of this too. Its the age. At home I talked to my husband about it but we ended up having a fight. So what do I do?