My dad drives me nuts on family trips
My dad (60) is a great guy. He is a pastor, and he is very passive and mostly chill and does a lot for the whole family. As I am growing up, I am realizing he is very rigid and black and white in his thinking. For example, if I try to tell him his driving is making me car sick and I feel horrible, he acts like I am the problem. Or if anyone tries to correct him with ANYTHING, he plays victim like we are crazy. Then, when someone else drives, he is a backseat driver and makes fun of them. He also does bad socializing with people and only cares if he is interested in the topic. He just can’t be corrected and blames us for anything. He just seems to always be in crisis mode and can’t seem to slow down. I am wondering if it’s autism or something?? I (26 F) have ADHD and Anxiety but my parents are old school and think there is nothing wrong with them, hahah.