Lost but im hopeful
I came in to the state under U4u parole. uniting for Ukrainians. so I got my 2 years work permit status. with my girlfriend never married. I was living in Ukraine before the war started. so that make my application got approved.
things don’t go well for me and my girl friend when we got to the state. after a year together she move out and few month got married to a lady and started her life. So I met a lady she’s 9 years older than me things got mixed up she got pregnant for me around may June last year. she knows my situation and said she would help me with my documents we got married in July last year. after few weeks after the marriage she had miscarriage of our first child together. dark time cause we already planing the future and all. We move pass that and again she got pregnant again last year november and another miscarriage in December . since then our marriage have gone worst. she move out from the house ask non of her family to contact me. I did All to safe my marriage but noting works. now I’m called for interview, I rescheduled the first interview which was April 23 2026 and after a week they rescheduled me again for next week June 04 2026 and she’s still don’t communicate with me. I even ask her we should go divorce, she never make time to come to court to sign the papers, she don’t want to sign divorce always busy and don’t want to follow me for interviews, after all the life we shared, had two miscarriage together . She might feel shes the only one facing it. But as a man I always dream of my own child I felt more broken bout the child. I’m just 28 starting my life and I have faced two miscarriages. it’s so painful, now what I’m asking is what advice can you give me. I’m lost and am scared of the way forward. Should I go to the interview alone. I have all the pregnancy document. the ultra scan, doctors report. vacations we went, gift all.
im from one of the 39 ban country.