How do I start getting invited to stuff with my friends?
I'm a very outgoing person, so its not like i'm reserved, but i'm also awkward. Sometimes i feel like when i try and chime in on a conversation it comes across as a weird thing to say or just doesn't fit the tone of the conversation, and i've tried to stop but i just don't know how.
I've been like this my whole life but i only started really caring about it after my friends started having more and more hangouts and i would only really get invited to the birthday parties, but never the smaller hangouts like going to the shops or the movies.
So now im wondering what im doing wrong for me to not get invited to stuff.
I do live further from my friends so im never able to be the organiser of stuff, and i thought that could be the problem, but i have another friend that lives 5 minutes away from me (so they are also far from everyone else) but they are always getting invited to stuff.
So what am i doing wrong and how can i change it so my friends actually want to invite me to stuff?