u/Effective_Action_399

How to move on when you crush someone?

I've known this guy for about 3 years through a club we're both in. Since we live in different cities, we only see each other 1–3 times a year at meetups and we've only ever had small talk.

But at our most recent event, I suddenly developed a crush on him. And what made it confusing is that once I started noticing him, we kept bumping into each other throughout the day (at an event with 500 people). When we walked together, he waited for me, said hi, and started a conversation. On the last day, even though he was busy, he still came and sat next to me when he had a free moment and said hi.

The thing is, he's known for being nerdy and introverted, he doesn't really go out of his way to talk to people.

Am I reading too much into this, or could he possibly feel something too? How do I move on if I'm just overthinking?

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u/Effective_Action_399 — 14 days ago