I 17M, am about to confess to a girl 17F in a couple days, but I just found out my childhood crush/ex 17F still likes me. Which person do I go after?
I’ve been talking to this girl (who we’ll call A for short) for around 3 weeks and we’ve hit it off pretty well. I know 100 percent sure that A likes me, her friend has sent me screenshots of her fangirling over my targeted reposts to her. There’s also this back and forth of specific instagram notes that we do and we like each other’s notes. I’m about to confess to A in two days, and I’m 80 percent sure A knows this. A couple hours after I bought the stuff to confess to A, my childhood crush/ex‘s (who we’ll call J) little sister sends me a series of notes from J’s phones that is basically a little diary/anecdotes about me over the course of three years which around the time including our time before the relationship, during, and after. J apparently still likes me. The reason why J broke up with me was because her father found out and J has a strict father. J’s father made her break up with me and I never knew until now. I still love J after all these years, it’s been about 7 since I first liked her. I’m scared that if I confess to A, it wouldn’t be fair because I would still have eyes for J and not only A. On the other hand, not confessing to A and kinda “dropping her” is also unfair because this future relationship was so hyped. I still like A as well too. What the absolute flip do I do?