Discarded by ex pwBPD for my best friend. finally moving on and now she wants me back.
I guess I’m just asking for support. I haven’t been able to tell my story.
We were married for 8 years and had a child together. I messed up with her family and had to move out of the house, the day we moved she decided not to stay. She slowly started telling people we were separated, then divorced. She lied to me about being with my best friend. It really hurt me bc one day I just didn’t have my son my dog or my wife.
Recently I finally got a partner who loves me. I started to realize how much trauma i was living with. Im not entirely sure what happened, but my exwBPD was discarded by him and now she keeps wanting to “talk”
I can’t forgive her for the things she’s done, and Im happy now. I just get so anxious knowing I have to deal with her as a co parent for the rest of my life. Does anyone else have a similar story? I feel so trapped.
I gave myself up for her. I stopped loving myself. And now that I do, she wants me to forgive her.