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my bf has just started training for the T38s. for a bit of context we were together for a year, broken up for the entirety of his UPT and reconnected during his few weeks off before he started this current phase. we live a flight away from one another. as someone with a corporate job i don't fully comprehend the demand of pilot training. i want this relationship to work out and the hopes is to move with him after he gets his aircraft assignment and first real base. how do i support someone during training whilst also not abandoning myself? it's been really hard trying to rebuild a relationship with him when i get 3-4 texts a day and one call a week. what are realistic expectations to have and how do people with spouses in this situation still manage to feel loved?