u/EnvironmentalGrab984

I've seen a lot of posts on here and have related to what people have said often. Just kind of wanted to talk.

Anybody else get that feeling? Like, it's a numb sadness that you'll never be able to talk to you parents about how their actions affect you and your feelings toward them. It's perceived as criticism, and their first response to what you've said is negative. Like if you say 'I don't like how annoyed you were getting when we were doing x' and they reply 'I disagree. I can't see how that's the case'. They don't consider how you feel at all.

I stopped talking to my parents for 2 months and it was good. My mother told me to 'stop this nonsense', and when she asked me why I'm not talking I always felt like I was being interrogated, not being met compassionately to talk about how I felt and was feeling.

I tried talking to them again but it's the same. It's like everything they say there's this deep part of me that is hurt.

There's so much more to say but, I don't know man. I'm not talking to them again, life is really easier when I don't.