AITAH for hating my mom's boyfriend
I (17F), am living with my mom until I move out for university next year. About a year and a half ago we moved house, and her boyfriend moved in with us (they are not married or engaged). I hate the guy. Hes lazy, always complains and I have to put up with his screaming children from his previous marriage, who are the worst behaved ones ive ever seen (one is a 4 year old and one is a 6 year old). To make things worse he and my mom are always arguing with eachother, every day, multiple times a day. I was 11 when my parents divorced and it messed me up quite a bit, and now i cant be around people arguing, so I often just end up crying and leaving when they do.
Essentially its been a miserable year and a half since he moved in, but whatever, ive tried to put up with him as I guess they like eachother. Today i was working on a project I have to complete by Monday, and the WiFi went out. I thought maybe there was an outage, but when it didn't turn on I asked my mother. 2 minutes later I got a message from her boyfriend saying 'me and your mom are tired. If you empty the dishwasher the WiFi will go back on.' Bare in mind he didn't ask me normally before hand, simply turned the WiFi off and said nothing. I know for a fact I empty the dishwasher and clean more than he does, and it really upset me because the project has been stressing me out and I cant work on it without my laptop.
I wanted to tell my mother about how much i hate the dude, but now Im scared I might be overreacting and they'll just call me lazy. AITA?