Hi everyone! A couple years ago I started having this issue where every time I had an orgasm, I’d immediately start having intense cramps (think: nonstop period cramps that knock the wind out of you and make you double over involuntarily.) The cramps will last for at least 30 minutes after. I wasn’t sure if it was an endo symptom, but for the 2 years I was on Orilissa, it stopped happening. I’ve been off Orilissa since February and haven’t had it happen….until today.
I am in tears, burnt from my heating pad, and really really disappointed. I can go without masturbating fine, and in the past I was dating someone that never made me cum so I lowkey found it as a blessing in disguise (…I faked it to avoid the pain) but now I’m dating someone who actually makes it their priority to make me cum first. So now I’m mourning both my pain-free pleasure and the newfound intimacy that’s made me feel spoiled.
Does anyone else struggle with the orgasm cramps? Any tips? I feel like I’ve read somewhere something about cbd lube? No pain meds touch it. I’m desperate :(
Note: My dr also says I have mild pelvic floor spasm, I need to ask if that could also be related. Any thoughts on that are appreciated too