Succeeded no contact, but he moved on
So I was in a 10 year longterm relationship. Despite all the things he did, all the cheating and disrespect, I still stayed. But still, he dumped me, and its been a year and a half now. I thought I already moved on. I blocked him on all socials. I am very proud that Ive contained myself this long. We’ve been in no contact ever since the breakup.
Then my cousin sent me a screenshot of his story with his new gf. And they’re all happy, hugging and kissing. And it hit me so hard. I thought I was moving on. I was happy before I saw all that. It’s been weeks since I haven’t had the energy to do anything. I keep crying at night. He moved on while I’m still stuck here. I felt so insecure again. All the progress I’ve made has gone back to zero.
I’ve been with him since we were teenagers. We witnessed each and every version of our lives. And I wish I could forget all our memories. All the future we built together, now he is planning this with someone now. And I’m right here still alone. I've been firm on going no contact with him, but he totally forgot about me and moved on.