u/Fast-Barracuda-9567

Please opinions
I live with my bf and his parents (and his older brother) they all live in the main house and me and bf stay in the converted shed (it’s a cute tiny home). I recently got bunion surgery so I have been staying at the main house spare room because it has a connected bathroom, instead of me having to hop up and down stairs we thought it would make recovery easier.

Two days post op I decide I want to shower before my bf gets home from work. I catch his older brother (it’s weird bc he was a preemie so he’s kind of disabled ish), peeping in me to rough the bathroom window that connects to the sunroom. He was in the sunroom watching shower and struggle bc my foot. First I saw the curtain move and I was suspicious, then I decide to peek my head down towards the window and we made eye contact.

Then he rushed to his mom and confessed to her what he just did saying he doesn’t know why he did that… then he left the house for hours. I pretty much had a mini panic attack and his mom came in the room trying to understand and talk about it.
He was playing the victim texting his mom that he’s sick and he’s like every other predatory guy.

The thing is this isn’t the first sus encounter there’s a pattern
In January his sister thought the same thing when she was visiting showering in that bathroom, she got paranoid because she saw the curtain move but she never caught him.
In march, I found a hidden camera in the laundry room disguised as a charger, me and my bf broke it apart and found a camera. It’s weird where it was placed in the laundry room where his sister and I change clothes sometimes..
My bf also admitted that when there were kids his older brother molested him but never confessed to anyone about it.
When we found the camera we decided to come foward to the “adults” but nothing ever happened.
And for this new event, since I caught him eye to eye… his parents and older sisters are suggesting separation , therapy, and then reintroducing later on. Some bs…

Please help
I live with my bf and his parents (and his older brother) they all live in the main house and me and bf stay in the converted shed (it’s a cute tiny home). I recently got bunion surgery so I have been staying at the main house spare room because it has a connected bathroom, instead of me having to hop up and down stairs we thought it would make recovery easier.

Two days post op I decide I want to shower before my bf gets home from work. I catch his older brother (it’s weird bc he was a preemie so he’s kind of disabled ish), peeping in me to rough the bathroom window that connects to the sunroom. He was in the sunroom watching shower and struggle bc my foot. First I saw the curtain move and I was suspicious, then I decide to peek my head down towards the window and we made eye contact.

Then he rushed to his mom and confessed to her what he just did saying he doesn’t know why he did that… then he left the house for hours. I pretty much had a mini panic attack and his mom came in the room trying to understand and talk about it.
He was playing the victim texting his mom that he’s sick and he’s like every other predatory guy.

The thing is this isn’t the first sus encounter there’s a pattern
In January his sister thought the same thing when she was visiting showering in that bathroom, she got paranoid because she saw the curtain move but she never caught him.
In march, I found a hidden camera in the laundry room disguised as a charger, me and my bf broke it apart and found a camera. It’s weird where it was placed in the laundry room where his sister and I change clothes sometimes..
My bf also admitted that when there were kids his older brother molested him but never confessed to anyone about it.
When we found the camera we decided to come foward to the “adults” but nothing ever happened.
And for this new event, since I caught him eye to eye… his parents and older sisters are suggesting separation , therapy, and then reintroducing later on. Some bs… idk what to do… I feel helpless and I want justice.