u/Fast-Bookkeeper-7925

I'm a young woman and so is my fiancee he's a few years older than me not by much but nonetheless he is a great man.He's handsome as in your stereotypical white American man,extremely smart,works hard and is a very good partner.For context I'm middle Eastern,I don't have a good opinion on the US.I simply don't feel loved,he's not talkative in general and he might sometimes just ignore me,while he does have ADHD this still bothers me,I'm trying to be understanding.I have asked him to break up multiple times and he simply said no.I just want to feel loved the way I want to be loved,what am I to do? Beg him to love me? I've brought the issue up countless time only to see change for a few days then him going back to normal.Im fed up I understand I'm very much loved however I'm simply not feeling the love and I'm not happy right now,there are days where he makes me feel like I'm over the moon and days where he simply isn't there.What do I do? Do I threaten leaving again? Do I stop talking to him? Do I leave without a word? He has so many plans made for us it's sometimes making me feel trapped.Im very confused!!