What should I do?
What should I do ?
Hi guys,
This is my first reddit post 💅🏽 , I never thought I'll make one but here we are and before writting this I searched alot on this platform for the same topic so I could read the advise other people were getting but today I gathered the courage to write my own post.
P.s- pls ignore if there are typos or grammatical errors 🥲 and sorry if it's too long
So, I'm 21 F, I'm currently in college one more year to go since the bachelor I'm pursuing is a five year course. First I'll give you a little bit of context about me , I'm an extreme extrovert , I love talking to people, making new friends , going out and having fun but.... Lately I've been feeling a little alone , I have friends but the problem is they also have other friends.
Let's start with my school friends we were in the same school for almost 14-15 years and then after school we were in the same classes so we used to spend the entire day together. After we completed our school , we enrolled in the same junior college but after that we chose different career streams and friendship started to fall out.
Rn in my college I have a best friend, she's the most genuine friend I have made in my entire life but the thing is she has a close knit family from childhood and the situation I described above is the same with her also but the thing is instead of friends those were her cousins and they meet almost everyday since they live next to each other so she priorities them and I don't mind that at all.
Now for my building friend I only have one friend since either the kids are way too young or people r old , we are the only people in the same age bracket but what happened was 15 years ago our building went into re-development, the builder scammed us and the building didn't get constructed for 15 years , now when we shifted back we were in our late teens around 18-19 and we vibe but she's closer to other building friend (while re development she shifted to the neighbouring building) and they also meet almost everyday, we have swings in our swings in the garden and every evening either her friends come to our building to hang or she goes to theirs.
Lately when I started feeling that maybe after college I might drift apart from my college best friend, which i obviously don't want to happen, i actively started to reach out more to people, my school friends and building friend but the issue is they already have friends whom they prioritise more and we tried hanging out more but the schedule don't align , sometimes they have their exams , sometimes I have mine , the clg timings differ and submissions.
What should I do , i don't actually have a lot of scope to meet new people and I have also actively tried to connect with friends but they already have their friends whom they prioritise more.
I'm sorry if the post was too long and since this is my first post I'd appreciate it if people won't be that harsh with me 🫥 and maybe the problem is I'm boring ( someone pointed it out to OP in a similar post, and if so is the case what can I do to improve it)