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The right way to cope with not being attractive

I'm insecure about my appearance and not having really been pursued as I get older. It feels like God hates me, so does the opposite sex / everyone, and I have no value. Assuming I'm unattractive how should I cope and is guilt warranted I feel morally-inferior even though I don't think I did anything wrong. How can I have higher self esteem. And is it worth it to look for relationships if I don't think I could be enough for someone physically. I don't know how to be positive it feels impossible because I keep comparing myself to other people and feeling like I'm one of the only exceptions I end up in a dark place sometimes. If I'm not pretty at all even with makeup how can I still hold onto my self-worth and be content with how things turned out getting beyond what's supposed to be your prime but not knowing what being wanted is like. And not wanting someone to settle for me but also being physically-lonely

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u/Fast-Dimension-4855 — 8 days ago