Cousin
Lemme make a long story very shot. My mom, who has been in the U.S for about 25 years, has always sent money to help my family back home in her native country. As many ppl have experienced, they are unappreciative and only call her when they need something. One of my cousins (30M) said he wants to come to the U.S. Keep in mind this is a grown man with 2 kids who is an alcoholic. My mom was speaking to my cousin (who lives with us and is a sibling of my cousin who is trying to come) about letting him borrow some money to come here. My cousin said she doesnt want to since he's an alcholic and hes gonna do the same shit here. I heared them talking about this and later on in the day confronted her about it. Tbh i did come off strong and tell her why she would let someone like even live with us. And she started telling me that its none of my business and that this is her house and she can dowtv she wants (its not only her house its my dads as well). But even if she tells my dad its going to be a im letting you know type of thing and not a lets talk about. Idk what to do since i clearly dont want him here cuz of his isues and plus i have a little brother i dont want him to be around him at all. Im leaving out a lot of stuff but lmk ur thoughts?