How do I (22M) support my partner (24F)?
I need some urgent advice. I have been dating my partner for almost a year now. Everything is perfect. There’s just one problem. I am from a Tier 1 Engg college in India and just graduated. I have a job offer that starts next month and am also making a good amount of money from freelancing. My partner is in the nursing domain which is nearly not as rewarding as engg. She’s currently finishing her final semester doing an unpaid internship( it’s the norm here). So when we go on dates, I pay for everything which is absolutely fine from my side. I have no issues about this. In fact she has issues about it. She feels like she is using me and feels “disgusted” about herself. Currently, things are a little tough financially for her and paying the last semester fees is troubling for her. I want to simply remove her problem and just support her by paying for it. I know if I suggest it, she won’t let me do it, but I know this disparity affects her a lot. How do I support her? How do I kind of make this easy for her? I know I can’t help a lot, but she’s a really good student and studies seriously and I believe will do very good soon. Also, I know very well that she is a good person and absolutely hates not being able to spoil me. Please help.