u/FastRegret2508

What to do?

May utang yung mama ko sa isang tao (5/6). 20k yung capital niya then 3k ung tubo linggo linggo. Nagpatong patong na yung tubo for 3 weeks since nagkaron kami ng medical emergency. Gusto na ipabalik nung tao lahat kasama capital sa ngayon 10k lang hawak kong pera ayaw niya tanggapin gusto niya kunin ng buo ung capital at ung naipong tubo papayag daw siya na kunin ung 10k pero patuloy pa rin sa pagtubo linggo linggo. Hindi ko na alam gagawin ko kasi baon na baon na kami sa kanya parang hindi na kami natatapos. Sinusugod niya na kami sa bahay at nag iiskandalo. Pinagmumura niya rin si mama sa message at pinopost sabay mention sa aming pamilya. Sinabi ko na sa baranggay nalang kami mag usap kasi di ko na talaga kaya dahil ako ang nagpoprovide sa bahay at ayaw niyang pumayag na itigil ung tubo at gusto niya na ibalik na ung buong capital.

(Sa 3 weeks na naipong tubo hindi yon buo. 3k ung tubo madalas 1500-2000 lang ung naihuhulog ko)

Anong pwede kong gawin?

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u/FastRegret2508 — 12 days ago

Scan

What kind of scan I should do a transvaginal or a pelvic ultrasound to ruled out pregnancy given my last encounter is Jan 22? I'm just scared to hidden pregnancy and I'm kinda suspecting I have pcos.

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u/FastRegret2508 — 12 days ago

I really need thoughts

Hi, I know this is my anxiety and severe tokophobia talking, but I really need thoughts about this. I had unprotected sex on January 22 (withdrawal), and that same night I did the Yuzpe method. From January 23–31, I had heavy bleeding with clots.

I didn’t get my period in February, and I was already 12 days delayed, so I took urine pregnancy tests on March 1, 7, 10, and 11, and all were negative. Then I had bleeding from March 12–17, which was also heavy with clots.

I read a lot on TikTok and Reddit that some people still get periods even when pregnant, so I took tests again on April 4 and 6, and they were all negative. After that, I had another heavy bleeding from April 8–13.

I took pregnancy tests again on May 4 and May 11, and both were negative. My period this month was due on May 11, but there are still no signs that it will come anytime soon.

I’m really stressed now, and I’m thinking I might have a cryptic pregnancy and that all my tests are negative because of the hook effect. I also read that some people never get positive urine or even blood serum tests. I’m very stressed right now, and it is affecting my daily life.

What is the best way to ease my anxiety—should I get a pelvic scan or a transvaginal ultrasound (TVS)? Do you think there could be a fetus there? It’s really expensive in my country, so I can only choose one.

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u/FastRegret2508 — 12 days ago

I really need thoughts

Hi, I know this is my anxiety and severe tokophobia talking, but I really need thoughts about this. I had unprotected sex on January 22 (withdrawal), and that same night I did the Yuzpe method. From January 23–31, I had heavy bleeding with clots.

I didn’t get my period in February, and I was already 12 days delayed, so I took urine pregnancy tests on March 1, 7, 10, and 11, and all were negative. Then I had bleeding from March 12–17, which was also heavy with clots.

I read a lot on TikTok and Reddit that some people still get periods even when pregnant, so I took tests again on April 4 and 6, and they were all negative. After that, I had another heavy bleeding from April 8–13.

I took pregnancy tests again on May 4 and May 11, and both were negative. My period this month was due on May 11, but there are still no signs that it will come anytime soon.

I’m really stressed now, and I’m thinking I might have a cryptic pregnancy and that all my tests are negative because of the hook effect. I also read that some people never get positive urine or even blood serum tests. I’m very stressed right now, and it is affecting my daily life.

What is the best way to ease my anxiety—should I get a pelvic scan or a transvaginal ultrasound (TVS)? Do you think there could be a fetus there? It’s really expensive in my country, so I can only choose one.

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u/FastRegret2508 — 12 days ago

I really need thoughts

Hi, I know this is my anxiety and severe tokophobia talking, but I really need thoughts about this. I had unprotected sex on January 22 (withdrawal), and that same night I did the Yuzpe method. From January 23–31, I had heavy bleeding with clots.

I didn’t get my period in February, and I was already 12 days delayed, so I took urine pregnancy tests on March 1, 7, 10, and 11, and all were negative. Then I had bleeding from March 12–17, which was also heavy with clots.

I read a lot on TikTok and Reddit that some people still get periods even when pregnant, so I took tests again on April 4 and 6, and they were all negative. After that, I had another heavy bleeding from April 8–13.

I took pregnancy tests again on May 4 and May 11, and both were negative. My period this month was due on May 11, but there are still no signs that it will come anytime soon.

I’m really stressed now, and I’m thinking I might have a cryptic pregnancy and that all my tests are negative because of the hook effect. I also read that some people never get positive urine or even blood serum tests. I’m very stressed right now, and it is affecting my daily life.

What is the best way to ease my anxiety—should I get a pelvic scan or a transvaginal ultrasound (TVS)? Do you think there could be a fetus there? It’s really expensive in my country, so I can only choose one.

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u/FastRegret2508 — 12 days ago

4 months after sex

My last sex Jan 22 but I do have bleeding on Jan 23, March 12 and April 8 but i'm 2 days delayed in my period this month. Can it be hook effect or possible its cryptic pregnancy?

u/FastRegret2508 — 13 days ago

Thoughts

Jan 22 – Unprotected sex + used Yuzpe method after

Jan 23–31 – Bleeding

March 1, 7, 10, 11 – Pregnancy tests: negative

March 12–17 – Bleeding

April 4 & 6 – Pregnancy tests: negative

April 8–13 – Bleeding

May 4 – Pregnancy test: negative

Its been months but my anxiety is still high. I saw on tiktok and reddit that they are negative in pt for several months but still pregnant the same as they do bleed. Is there really chance? I'm still scared till now. I'm currently 2 days delayed for this month period.

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u/FastRegret2508 — 14 days ago