u/Fast_Baby_5803

Feelings for another guy

Just abit of background. I am 28, been married for 3 years. I am a Muslim, so is my husband. Our relationship is going downhill, if thats the best way to describe it. I feel I am not appreciated enough and even our sex life isn’t what it used to be.

So me and hubby went out on a overnight spa weekend away, and there was a guy (he was single) in the same building as us and we conversed very well even with my hubby being there. I felt some sort of way with this guy and I’ve never had this feeling in a long time. Maybe it was the environment or how I was dressed (fitted dress but still had my headscarf on, I usually dress modest).

The next day, on the final night hubby had an early night as he was tired and I came down to the pool area to find this guy also there, we just started talking mainly about fitness, life in general and I did feel like he was flirting with me and complimented me several times. I’d be lying if I wasn’t in my feels with him. He gave me his number before I left to my room. I couldn’t get him out of my head the whole night. Its been couple of days now and I am wondering if I should just message him and meet up with him, even though knowing I could end up cheating on hubby but I feel passed that point now? Any advice, has anyone been in a similar situation

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u/Fast_Baby_5803 — 11 days ago

Taking hijab off

Currently married but wanting to take hijab off, not sure the best way to go about it with my husband. I would say I do dress modest sometimes but sometimes I wouldn’t call it modest and I feel it would be better if I didn’t wear the Hijab until I am more modest. Anyone been in a similar position and how did you go about it?

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u/Fast_Baby_5803 — 12 days ago