lol I am a 30 years old male living abroad , married (wife is from bangladesh) came over now became a citizen , have a child aswell , every time I go back to Bangladesh to visit it is so embarrassing when the shop sellers tells me a number I tell him to say It in English or to show me on a calculator , they start saying apni oshikito ? I was like the fuck is that one time my mother in law heard that someone called me oshikito snapped on that seller.
it is so embarrassing to be honest despite the fact that I am fluent in 5 languages being not able to read or write Bangla all the Bangla I learn is by speaking with my parents
I speak fluent Bangla.
to my foreign bengali people is It the same for you?