u/Fast_Equipment866

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disclosure discussion

what’s the thought on disclosure, if you’re not in a relationship and openly wanting to have a sex life.
If you’re doing everything right to prevent should you disclose to a non serious relationship. or should you disclose no matter what at all times?

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u/Fast_Equipment866 — 9 days ago
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so I just wanna know what you guys think the odds of a transmission of sex from m to f are.
I have hsv2 and I’m wondering every precaution I can take. I’m on meds and I use condoms. So if I had an outbreak in the area above my shaft. If I wear a condom and wear underwear and put my dick through the piss hole. Basically where my outbreak area wouldn’t be exposed at all and fully covered up. Does that lower the chances even more?? I mean it says it’s from skin to skin contact right? I contracted hsv while using a condom-.- but like I said ig it was the classic condom doesn’t cover that area spot. So if I covered that spot up myself am I good??? Like if I have no outbreaks don’t feel any coming or anything like that, take the meds and do what I just said. How protected is the other person?

Also side note since I’m thinking about it, the whole skin to skin contact thing has me thinking. Maybe because I don’t understand hsv completely or how the shit works. But if it’s skin to skin contact that usually transfers it, then what if there was a way to completely cover the genitals with something else I mean shit tbh if it looked cool enough I’d wear some like , really protective underwear with a built in condom or something ya know? I just feel like there’s 100% more that can be done to have safer sex with hsv like if it’s just my mouth (hsv1) and my genital area for hsv2 then can’t we like find a way to at least cover the guys up and have that area covered to not transfer it? Nobody finna get knee herpes so it’s not like we gotta wear a wet suit just some cool lookin underwear. Ps I am high asf so sorry if this didn’t make sense but I’m dead serious at the same time😂💀 I’m so deep in this thought I just wanna discuss it

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u/Fast_Equipment866 — 17 days ago