u/Few-Side8103

My friend has recently started looking at me with hatred. The other day, I saw her looking me up and down when she saw me. To make matters worse, her boyfriend keeps provoking me with indirect jokes, sometimes mentioning things he wouldn't know about me unless she told him. Also, she makes sure she can exclude me, forgeting my name, that I am in the room and from conversations, even though we know each other for 2 years. The rest of my group of friends remains super friendly towards me. I'm distancing myself from her, but I'd like to know other people's opinions on what might be happening. Everyone else describes her as super sweet and innocent, so I feel like the villain. She acts as if it's justifiable to hate me.

I think in terms of looks, I'm actually quite pretty. I'm tall, slim but curvy, with curly hair and Latin features. I wear makeup and dress well. I'm in a prestigious course and behave myself very appropriately. Even so, it seems like I'm invisible to men my age; it's usually older or weird guys who stare or approach me. I don't think I have a difficult personality; I'm funny and try to be kind to people. I'm a 23-year-old woman and I've never had a boyfriend. What's wrong with me? It's not necessarily a problem, but I feel abnormal, since many girls my age are dating or seeing multiple people.

And it's not like I live in an isolated cave. I go to college every day and I go to the gym at least three times a week.