AITAH for not bringing my GF to my best friends wedding because of clashing schedule?
Hi, first of all sorry if this is a long story because English is not my native language and this is my first post here so I might be rambling a bit.
So I've (26 y.o) been with my girlfriend (24 y.o) for the past one and a half year. This month, 3 of my friends invited me to their wedding on the same date and time, 2 of those 3 are one of my closest friend through my highschool years until now and one of them will be holding an after-party after the wedding. The other, I'm not too close so I decided to only attend the holy matrimony.
My girlfriend comes from a strict parenting family. She cannot go home late, 10 PM is the maximum time she must be at home. I tried saying to her to ask for permission from her parents to come home late at the wedding day but she said that her parents won't allow it and she also does not want to be scolded. She told me to ask for her parents permission myself and I did tell her that I have no problem asking for her parents permission but she did not say yes to me.
So after some thinking, I decided that It's not possible to bring her to the weddings as bringing her would mean that I can only attend one of the wedding for just an hour (7-8PM) (not even enough time for greetings) and then I have to drive her home at 8PM and then drive back to my other close friend wedding which would take more than an hour which then when I arrive at the other wedding, it would be near the end of the ceremony and straight to the after-party, in which i'm not comfortable attending my close friend wedding only during the after party.
I told her that If she cannot come home late, then unfortunately I could not bring her to the wedding and she got mad and said that I prioritized my friend more than her. I already tried explaining that those 2 are my close friends and I would like to be there because it's once in a lifetime for them. She told me that if I put in the effort, I could just attend one of the wedding just for an hour and then drive her home and then go to the other wedding.
After some heated discussion, she told me that she wanted to break up. I already tried explaining to her that this is just a weird circumstances in which I was invited to 3 weddings at the same date and time, in any other circumstances, I would absolutely bring her to my friends wedding.