u/Frosty-Choice-3818

Please help me see the light !

My chest feels heavy

My heart feels like it physically hurts

Please tell me it’s possible to find love again
I know there’s more to life than love
I’m just in the depths of it currently and I need to know it’s possible

Tell me your stories of love after heart wrenching heartbreak.

He just gave up on us. We share a baby. We talked about growing old together.
He promised forever and I believed him.
He gave up on us . Why ?

Now here I am alone and broken
When does it get better time isn’t helping
It’s been 6 months and it feels like yesterday we broke up.

How long does it take to get better? ❤️‍🩹

I hope you have the life you deserve ✌🏼

Dear emotionally, abusive/manipulative/avoidant ex,
I hope you know that you disgust me now.
Your lack of self awareness and accountability
Your laziness to do the self work to grow heal
Always taking the easy way out of anything
It’s pathetic and gross.
Disgusting.

One day your daughter will watch her mom being loved right and it won’t be by you.

Since Reddit seems to have so many rules here is the “nice” version of that I really wanted to say ..

Had I known then what I know now, I don’t think I would have made the same choices. I don’t think I would have started this relationship or chosen to build a family together.

Looking back, I feel hurt and disappointed because I believed we would both be willing to grow, do the hard work, and fight for our family when things got difficult. Instead, I’ve experienced a lack of accountability and effort that has left me feeling unsupported and alone.

I know people see relationships differently, but for me, creating a family meant showing up, doing self-reflection, and working through challenges together. It’s painful to realize that may not have been something we valued the same way.

Since Reddit seems to have so many rules here is the “nice” version of that I really wanted to say ..

Had I known then what I know now, I don’t think I would have made the same choices. I don’t think I would have started this relationship or chosen to build a family together.

Looking back, I feel hurt and disappointed because I believed we would both be willing to grow, do the hard work, and fight for our family when things got difficult. Instead, I’ve experienced a lack of accountability and effort that has left me feeling unsupported and alone.

I know people see relationships differently, but for me, creating a family meant showing up, doing self-reflection, and working through challenges together. It’s painful to realize that may not have been something we valued the same way.

Hey, how was your day ? I hope it was good
I miss you
Do you want to have dinner tonight?
Watch a movie and cuddle ?

Dear SRPD,

What can I do to get put in handcuffs Mirandad pushed up against a cop car but not charged with anything and then just released?

🤣

I pretend I have plans and like I’ve moved on but deep down really I just wish you would want this too, but since you’ve made it clear that you don’t want this too maybe if I just pretend like I moved on eventually it will just kick in and and I will just move on but deep down all I want is for you to just come back and apologize and grow all together

That heavy weight on my chest makes it hard to breath.
Feels like a physical ache
What the f***.

When does this get better ❤️‍🩹

I pretend I have plans and like I’ve moved on but deep down really I just wish you would want this too, but since you’ve made it clear that you don’t want this too maybe if I just pretend like I moved on eventually it will just kick in and and I will just move on but deep down all I want is for you to just come back and apologize and grow all together

That heavy weight on my chest makes it hard to breath.
Feels like a physical ache
What the Fuck.

When does this get better ❤️‍🩹

I pretend I have plans and like I’ve moved on but deep down really I just wish you would want this too, but since you’ve made it clear that you don’t want this too maybe if I just pretend like I moved on eventually it will just kick in and and I will just move on but deep down all I want is for you to just come back and apologize and grow all together

That heavy weight on my chest makes it hard to breath.
Feels like a physical ache
What the Fuck.

When does this get better ❤️‍🩹

And you know damn well I would be open to it