took the kids on a holiday with no planned activities for the first time.
as a family, we are chronically over-scheduled on holidays. itineraries, bookings, things to tick off. always come home more tired than we left.
did something different this time. booked a cabin at a caravan park on the NSW coast for five nights with genuinely nothing planned. no day trips locked in, no restaurant reservations.
the first day was slightly chaotic because nobody knew what to do without a plan, including me.
by day two the kids had found other kids at the park and basically self-organized for the rest of the trip. i didn't need to entertain anyone. we ate when we were hungry, swam when it was hot, and got time for reading with my partner.
it sounds simple because it is, but it took purposely choosing accommodation where "just being there" was enough, the beach access, space to move around, nothing requiring a car, rather than a place that was purely a base for activities elsewhere.
it worked surprisingly well for us, and the kids talked about it more afterward than the heavily planned trip to the theme park the year before.