u/Frosty-Courage7132

No community, fun, dinners, activities, intimacy, sex

No communication, fun, dinners, activities, intimacy, sex

Hi, i met him last year and thn married after 1 month of courtship period.
No kiss, hugs, sex, no outgoings, he isn't into anything.
He just work, netflix, sleep. That's all. We married last year. Completed 1 year few days back.
He has zero hobbies, and we can't even communicate on little things these days.
I’ve communicated him like 300 times in a year & had argument with him over for going out/movies/ dinner/fun activities like gokarting,etc like anything you name.

He’s into nothing. He’s caring, if im not feeling well, he consider that & take care of me. Caress is also decreased but yeah still caring.
Other thn that there is nothing. Even roommates would’ve enjoyed life better together than us.
I go to gym, asked him several times, he isn’t interested.
He doesn’t even wear proper outfits, can wear old clothes, but doesn’t put even 1% of effort into anything except his job.

Whenever i try to convey he started saying like im not able to keep happy anyone, im bad, etc etc

I have communicated several times that these are the things i wanna do, but you don’t put efforts. He doesn’t even bath regularly. I have to tell him that it’s been 4 days pls take a bath. He doesn’t even go to salon for beard & hair trim/cut. I used to fight for these things also, but i have stopped saying anything now regarding these. He doesn’t even use a simple moisturiser

Also im very active person. I wanna enjoy this life, taste all foods, explore, visit places, diff cultures, wanna stay fit & healthy, i put efforts to get ready, (he even commented when i get ready negatively so many times like why are you doing this, what’s the need of this, etc)

Im extremely disappointed & frustrated. I have even stopped asking him to go out for dinner/movies/or any other activities which in one year he didn't even shown interest to do. Also i have asked him for kiss, sex and all.
I dont know what to do now.

tl;dr dead marriage in 1 year no kids

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u/Frosty-Courage7132 — 18 days ago