Looking for a genuine connection. Big fan of good conversations, consistency, and emotionally available people. Not interested in hookups or mixed signals.
Overthinker. Loyal once I care.
Just trying my luck cuz the last time it was mostly creeps in the DM’s
(versatile bottom, if that matters)
Need some outside perspective because this situation genuinely caught me off guard.
I recently made a dating post and ended up talking to someone who seemed friendly. After a while, they told me they knew someone who might be a good match for me and offered to introduce us.
Naturally, I assumed everyone involved was single.
They spoke highly of this person and I started feeling a little hopeful. Not in a "this is my soulmate" kind of way, but in a "maybe this could be worth exploring" way.
Then I found out that the person they were introducing me to was actually their current partner.
Apparently they've been having relationship issues for a while, and the reasoning was that their partner needed someone who could provide things they felt unable to provide. The idea was essentially to introduce us and then remove themselves from the picture.
The thing is, I'm not upset that the person was unavailable. What bothered me was not knowing the full context from the beginning. If I had known they were already in a relationship, I never would have agreed to be involved.
It made me feel less like someone they were genuinely introducing and more like a potential solution to problems in their relationship.
To their credit, they eventually told me the truth and I don't think there was any malicious intent behind it. But the whole situation felt incredibly strange.
Am I overthinking this, or would most people feel uncomfortable being put in that position?
22M from Delhi NCR (Noida).
Trying my luck here because dating apps have honestly been a confusing experience.
A little about me: I'm currently preparing for UPSC, fairly ambitious, emotionally expressive, and the kind of person who genuinely enjoys building a connection with someone. I like conversations, consistency, random updates about each other's day, sharing memes, and actually getting to know the person behind the profile.
I'm not looking for perfect. Just someone who's emotionally available, communicates openly, and is interested in putting effort into knowing each other. I don't expect constant texting because I have my own goals and routine too, but I do value consistency and basic communication.
Physically, I'm 6'1. If it matters, I'm a versatile bottom. Looking for someone around my age who is interested in something meaningful rather than keeping things permanently in the talking stage.
If you're from Delhi NCR and this sounds like something you'd be interested in, feel free to reach out. Even if nothing romantic comes out of it, making a genuine connection would be nice.