u/GGGBOF

Ever heard this from a relative or friend?

"Pogi naman ni _____. Sayang bading sya."

I was born in the 90s and grew up in the 2000s. Hearing this was common back then, but even today, I still hear it.

It's sad to hear that some people still think that a guy being gay = sayang. I've heard it from both young and old people. "Sayang" for who? Sayang na a female admirer has no chance with him? Sayang na the guy won't have kids or a family the "normal" way?

There's nothing "sayang" about a guy being attracted to other guys. Same goes for girls attracted to other girls.

Isipin nlng ng mga tao yung kanin na naiwan sa rice cooker na napanis kasi nakalimutan nila ilagay sa ref. Now that's truly sayang.