I had a dream…
Last night I had a dream, that my husband and I bought our forever home, out in the woods, with a beautiful mountain in the background, and then I woke up to reality. 1 year ago we were looking for our starter home while living with my in laws until his father got sick, we started sifting through bills, only to realize the mortgage hasn’t been paid in YEARS. Something that should’ve been paid off by this point in my in laws life. Now my FIL has passed, and it falls on us to buyout the home before a 90 day notice gets posted on the door that it’s been foreclosed. Moving out of this house with the amount of things my MIL has would be an absolute nightmare, like hoarder status nightmare. This is not our dream house and I certainly don’t want to live with her any longer than I have to, but if we didn’t buy the house, she’d be out on the street. She’s being super resistant to any changes I want to make, I will not live in a house that is not comfortably mine and decorated the way I want. I’m just so sad, sad that this may be my reality for the rest of my life, sad that this was put on us. Idk what else to say, any comforting advice or nice words would be helpful ♥️