my first threesome (potentially)
so i’ve been in a relationship for almost a year now. neither of us have a nailed down relationship orientation, but we’re both happy, committed to eachother and understanding of the desire and curiosity for more.
i just turned 27 btw and they did as well in December.
I have a friend I’m attracted to, we refer to eachother as baby gays cause we haven’t had much experience but talk here and there about the desire for it. We’ve been on date maybe twice, but nothing physical so or sexual beyond and their value to me as a friend is of the most importance at this point.
I’m not sure how to bring it up to my partner or my friend. With my partner Im just still a bit shy. With my friend, I’m fearful mostly of our dynamic changing negatively more than anything from past relationships, but I still want to ask them if they’d be down? They’ve met eachother and have spent time with eachother at this point.
It’s a different conversation for each. One probably harder than the other but idk. i’ll check back in