u/GLVCIER

So basically we moved to my dream area and I got a career as a welder started like I always wanted. Being up north and the area I was in I felt trapped. I don’t like the snow. We aren’t struggling financially but borderline. I have one family member where I am now, and one family member back where we are from. She has the big side of the family. We can move back in with her parents for six months to find jobs and get established up there again. The baby will have a huge support system and so will I. My question is, how do I stop being so selfish and thinking giving up everything I’ve worked for and wanted? I don’t want to move back at all but I know it’s for the best for our newly coming family. It’s all positive but I feel negative for going back.